What I’ve Learned Since Being a Stay-at-Home Mom

by | Mar 19, 2019

Some of the greatest experiences of my life took place in the years I spent raising my two daughters. As my husband and I drove home from dropping daughter number two off at college, I didn’t have the thoughts I thought I would: “Oh wow, I am free now, I can do what I want!” Or, “I don’t have to worry about them, I can worry about myself and my husband!” Or, “I can get a real job now!”

None of those thoughts resonated with my heart. You see, I never felt limited by my role as a full-time mom when they were small. When my first was born, I had already had a brief but great career in advertising at one of the world’s largest advertising agencies; I knew what swimming with the sharks in business was like in the commercial world.  And it didn’t make me happy.

After years of reflection, I have come to understand that what I learned from being with my children was of far greater value to me than I would have learned if I had stayed full time in the workforce. Being engaged in their growth and development was about the mystery and magic of sharing with every other parent on earth the exact same patterns of growth that every human goes through. 

I felt connected to everyone on the planet.

We didn’t have much money as a family and my husband and I weren’t perfect parents, but we did our best. The primary difference in the way we parented, so far as I could tell at the time, was the way my husband and I chose experiences for them, learned to engage with them in conversation, shared our family values, and taught them to love their environment. We had no regrets.

Being with our children as their lives unfolded was the best life training I could have had.

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Elane V. Scott

Elane is the co-founder of Raising Families. Her unique expertise in fields from marketing and media to community development and parent coaching is how she guides parents and grandparents to become more joyful and intentional family leaders. In her “free time” Elane enjoys reading metaphysical texts, talking to strangers on airplanes (pre-covid), and lovingly convincing her grandchildren they're meant for Olympic stardom. Read full bio >>