Simple 3 Step Role Reversal to Learn from Children

When we think of our kids, we usually think of all the things we need to teach them before they move out. We usually don’t think about all the things they can teach us. But there are many things we can learn from children.

There are general things that children teach us, like we should live in the moment more, that being curious is a good thing, and that we can learn a thing or two about patience.

There are more specific things we can learn from children, though, especially our own.

Try doing a role reversal with your child. When we reverse our roles and put our children in a place to teach us something, we allow them to build confidence and realize that they know things we don’t.

It also shows them that we’re open to learning new things. Seeing their parent as a lifelong learner lets them know it’s okay to not know everything.

1. Decide What Your Child Will Teach You

If you have young children, that’s okay. You can still do this with them. Whatever the age of your child, think about the things they enjoy and/or are good at.

If you have a younger child, you can ask them to show you how to play one of their favorite games.

If your child is a LEGO fiend, ask them to show you how to follow the instructions for one of their favorite sets, so you can assemble it together.

If you have an older child, ask them to show you something on your phone. Teens seem to know all the shortcuts and features. I’m sure they can show you something you had no idea was even a possibility. I say this because my teen has shown me things that I had no idea about. And I always thought I was staying up to date.

If your child has a skill that you do not, say drawing or painting or playing a particular sport or instrument, ask them to give you an introductory lesson. The added bonus of having your child teach you is that when you teach someone a skill, you become better at the skill through teaching it.

If you can’t think of anything, then ask your child if they have something they can teach you. You might be surprised with what they come up with.

2. Find a Time for Your Lesson

When you’ve decided what your child will teach you, work with your child to find a time that works for both of you for the lesson to take place. It could be right then, or it could be later.

When it comes time for your lesson, whatever the age of your child, let them lead the way. Ask questions and give them your undivided attention.

3. Thank Your Child

When the lesson is done, make sure to thank your child for teaching you. Not only will you have learned something new but your child will also have gained experience teaching, and you’ll both have a bonding experience to look back on, hopefully fondly.